Everyone agrees that the best way to learn about anything is to experience it first hand, and so it goes for relationships. Yet, one couldn't possibly experience everything and still, he needs to know a lot more than what his previous experiences had taught him. This is why books exists, not only to teach you what you need to know, but also to help understand your relationship, partner and most importantly, yourself! Below are some lessons I've from reading a relationship book called “Relationship rescue” for “Phillip C. McGraw. Ph.D.” I wanted to share with you: 1- There is nothing wrong with legitimate criticism or input in a relationship. There is nothing wrong when one party complains about the actions or attitudes of another. If that complaint is designed to improve the relationship. But constructive criticism too often gives way to constant fault finding, in which you obsess over the flaws and imperfections rather than find value in your partn
A relationship is a work of two. Both you and your partner should be learning from your mistakes if you ever want to make things work out between you. And although you came to find out a great deal about your partner this far, you simply won’t stop learning. There will always be more to learn not just about your partner, but about your relationship and most importantly about yourself. Below are some important truths everyone in a healthy relationship knows: 1- You can't control your partner, not even blaming him for anything he did, for the simple fact that everyone is free and no one has the right to judge people. You can't ask your partner to compromise himself for you. It's a take it all or leave it all. 2- A relationship is a work of two, if you want to make it, then both of you need to put in the effort and show all the love and the care, if you want something to change in your relationship, then both of you need to change. It t