1- I’ve learned that men and women are equal, if women wants affection and love, men do as well even if they look strong, they still need caring acts!

2- I’ve learned that it’s not all up to the man to make it, woman should help as well, they need to do everything together.

3- I’ve learned that it’s a necessity to express yourself, but this would never mean to hurt others’ feelings especially someone who loves you, even if you speak the truth. So if it hurts, keep it to yourself.

4- I’ve learned that you need to respect then to accept your partner for the way he is and the life he lives, even if you hate things about him or about the way he lives, that would never mean that you have the right to ask him to change himself or even to judge him, so accept him or just leave! we’re different and we’re not supposed to be the same!

5- I’ve learned that if you want your relationship to last you need to give more than your partner does give you and to be good to him more than he is to you.

6- I’ve learned that you should never expect his love in some specific way, because everyone has his own way to express his love. Just watch his love and feel it the way he wants to express it! so give up saying « if he loves me he would … »!! that makes no sense.

7- I’ve learned that it’s a necessity to have a man in your life because it’s our nature, we are a half and we need the other half to complete us, it’s a need, with a partner you’re happier and more balanced!

8- I’ve learned that you effect each other a lot, in a hard time when you show the smallest act of kindness that will mean much to him and when you just don’t care that disappoint a lot too.

9- I’ve learned that in a relationship everything should be taken seriously, a joke can hurt!

10- I’ve learned that it’s OK to let him live his life, he’s not supposed to spend every single hour with you and being too busy for you would never mean that you have no place in his hearts.

11- I’ve learned that how much he loves you isn’t measured with how many times he says « I love you », it’s measured with how much he needs you!

12- I’ve learned that no one is perfect, and you’re not supposed to meet that perfect one, you’re supposed to see his qualities and forget about all these bad things about him, because he’s not going to change them.

13- I’ve learned that you have no right to judge him or to change him and it’s rude to try so!

14- I’ve learned that he needs to know that you’re happy to have him in your life, that you’re proud of him, that you see him beautiful, smart, just perfect in his own way! and he needs to hear it from you, « I love you » can never replace any of these, each word has its meaning.

15- I’ve learned that he hates fighting all the time and he hates judgments and relationship is the only place where arguments won’t help!! so don’t try to fix anything, maintain it instead!

16- I’ve learned that if he ever asks for something that means that he’s doing it hopelessly and your NO would hurt! if you can do it say yes or give another alternative and know that your No would really hurts!

17- I’ve learned that you can do nothing to make him loves you, all what you can do is to be you!

18- I’ve learned that jealousy won’t solve the problem, it only hurts you and it’s stupid to feel so!

19- I’ve learned that if there is something that needs to be fixed then it would be yourself, then everything will follow.

20- I’ve learned that instead of looking for the perfect person, you’d better be that perfect person!